Does sex hurt?

Does penis and vagina sex hurt?

Sex should feel good. The vagina is a stretchy, muscular canal that relaxes and becomes lubricated with vaginal fluid when someone is excited for sex. 

If the vagina is tightened and/or not lubricated, it can hurt to have something go inside. There can be pain involved in sex and when that happens, it’s best to communicate, stop and try different things that feel good. 

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Does anal sex hurt?

Anal sex, like all sex, should feel good. It’s important to relax, use lubrication, go slowly, communicate with your partner and stop if there is pain.

Not everyone likes anal sex, just as everyone has preferences with all types of sex.

Is sex dangerous?

Sex comes with physical and emotional risks. The physical risks are typically related to unwanted pregnancy and sexual transmitted infections or sexualized violence. 

The emotional risks are typically related to consent and unhealthy/healthy relationships. When you understand the risks, you can also learn how to prevent them to ensure that sex is fun.